If anyone is in a relationship it should be as easy as breathing.
In the mornings when you wake up and when you go to bed it should feel effortless.
It should be 50 50 always.
If the person you are dating or the person you like is not inviting you or out and spending time with you then he does not want to be with you.
Dont mistake lust for love and dont allow him or her to use and take up all your energy save it for someone who is willing to reciprocate the same thing you are.